When the Thought of Intimacy Brings Panic, Not Pleasure.
If sex has felt like a performance you’re failing or a sensory “jump-scare” you have to survive—you’re in the right place.
“Just relax” isn’t the solution—it’s a demand.
Most traditional therapy fails because it doesn’t understand that for a neurodivergent brain, being told to “do a task” (even a relaxing one) can trigger a threat response. When your brain won’t allow you to do what you’re “supposed” to do, you aren’t being difficult—you’re being protective.
This is a clinical sanctuary to stop the demands. We move beyond the “homework” and the performance to address the clinical reality of your nervous system. Here, we respect your autonomy and find your way back to intimacy on your own terms.
Empowering You to Live & Love Freely.
I am an Atlanta-based LPC, a Black woman, and neurodivergent. I provide a clinical sanctuary for the complex nervous system, specializing in the intersections of Black liberation, Neurodivergence, and Kink.
I move beyond “just relax” to address the actual sensory friction and high-masking exhaustion that traditional therapy ignores. Using the Sensory-Safe Intimacy Map™, I help you identify your internal states before you reach shutdown—so you can experience intimacy on your own terms.
